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Just when you think people havent gotten low enough...

You might recall hearing last month about a girl in Mississippi named Constance McMillan. She lives in northern MS and attends a school in Itawamba. There was a buzz because Constance wanted to take her girlfriend to the prom. Oh, and she wanted to wear a tux. When she asked school officials for the ok, they predictably told her no. Not only did they tell her no, to make sure she didnt gate crash they cancelled prom altogether!

As shy and withdrawn as I was in high school, I probably would have tucked my tail between my legs and crawled under a rock until people forgot who I was. Constance, however, stood up for herself. The ACLU got involved on Constance's behalf and not surprisingly the school district tried to avoid the hot water it was suddenly finding itself in.

The school district's attorneys told the Judge that Constance (and all the kids) were being invited to a parent-sponsored prom being held somewhere in town. Based upon the way they presented the situation, the Judge did not grant the injunction forcing them to allow Constance to go to prom. Because according to them, this parent-sponsored event was open to everyone - including Constance. It didnt seem like a perfect solution, but it was better than nothing, right?

Except it was all a lie.

Oh, Constance was invited to a prom. A FAKE prom...where only she and 7 other kids attended. I'll bet the other kids were also gay or Constance's loudest supporters. Meanwhile, the REST of the kids were at the "real" prom which was held at a "secret location".

I'm beyond shocked. Am I shocked about discrimination against a lesbian? Not at all. Am I shocked that this took place in Bumpkinville? Nope. However, I am shocked that these people stood in a courtroom just a few days ago and completely misrepresented the situation to buy themselves enough time to effectively screw over a kid who committed the heinous crime of standing up for her rights.

At this point its unclear who is behind all of this. There's rumors that school officials were involved in helping set up the fake prom scenario but that may or may not be true. Personally I think its true because how on earth could you plan such an elaborate scam without the school administrators?

Shame, shame, shame on you Mississippi. And Constance? I hope you sue the SHIT outta them.

Date: 2010-04-06 03:44 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] investingkarma.livejournal.com
That's despicable. AND humiliating. I'd hate to be the person that will be remembered by anyone I recognize in college as "the girl they had the other prom for".

I'm sure they will try to play it off as a two-part prom or something to mimic legitimacy. Can she even sue them for it?

What a world.

Date: 2010-04-06 04:08 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] christianscott.livejournal.com
People are disgusting sometimes :(

Date: 2010-04-06 04:36 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] magsmom.livejournal.com
sucks. sounds like district sponsored discrimination. Constance knows what s right and she will take care of it.

As you might imagine, this story played huge on the news here in SF. One school in Mill Valley (just north) raised money to invite Constance and her date to their prom all expenses paid, including travel. I hope she comes and sess what life is like when people accept and celebrate diveresity.

Date: 2010-04-06 05:44 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] magnifelyn.livejournal.com
Thank you for writing this. It gives me hope to know that SOMEONE can do some good, to counterbalance all the bad.

Wow. Just....WOW

Date: 2010-04-06 06:44 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] rainbowchazer.livejournal.com
Ugh. She wasn't doing anything to harm anyone either.

Date: 2010-04-06 10:27 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] droewyn.livejournal.com
In the story I read, she said that several of the other 7 students were ... well ... "slow". Which turned out to be a good thing, because they had the time of their lives, without anyone to make fun of them for being who they were.

Date: 2010-04-06 10:49 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] tallizen.livejournal.com
She and Her girlfriend were invited to a Gay Award dinner by Wanda Sikes.

Date: 2010-04-06 01:20 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] dydan.livejournal.com
They've been invited to several different places but I dont think she's accepted any offers yet.

Date: 2010-04-06 04:35 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] popfiend.livejournal.com
It.

Blows.

Chunks.
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